tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post3121844208508966510..comments2023-05-13T08:45:00.510-03:00Comments on this 'aint no dress rehearsal: Answers receivedSupposed to be... "Mama G"...http://www.blogger.com/profile/01892924305204460312noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post-77698886578496591552010-03-27T17:33:13.792-03:002010-03-27T17:33:13.792-03:00Oh, in some ways, I feel so happy for you. Happy ...Oh, in some ways, I feel so happy for you. Happy that you're healthy and can try again when you're ready. And perhaps selfishly I see myself in you, and feel reassured by what I perceive to be your optimism, and some doubt. (But maybe that's just my stuff.) And with our loss experiences, I'm curious as to what another pregnancy will bring for each of us (when it happens). And I understand blaming yourself. With trisomy 18 a geneticist told us most likely there was something wrong with the egg, but it could have been the sperm, or could have been how the two joined. Of course I blame myself, and I HOPE when we get pregnant, I can make a healthy baby. Odds are most definitely in our favor (there's a 1.2% chance of anything being wrong with a subsequent pregnancy, from chromosomes to a heart defect, etc), but I learned with my first pregnancy odds don't matter if it happens to you.<br /><br />anyways... your entry feels hopeful to me, and that makes me feel good. :) Sending you love!Big Love, Big Acceptance - or so I sayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03647121831668711451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post-10663386521491924152010-03-24T16:21:47.167-03:002010-03-24T16:21:47.167-03:00No matter what happens to our children I think we ...No matter what happens to our children I think we always blame ourselves first.. And really we do the best we can with what we have..And I agree Kherrington would want you to continue with your life and be happy ... And we want you to be happy so do it when its right for you guys and no one ! Sending you lots of love guys!A Trampy Life by Piperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12198542028303242735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post-64403338511534930952010-03-24T12:10:29.366-03:002010-03-24T12:10:29.366-03:00Being tormented might feel appropriate right now g...Being tormented might feel appropriate right now given what's happened, but no one who loves you (Kherrington included) wants you to be unhappy. No matter how long you wait to try again, it won't change the past. All you can do is try to make your future as great as it possibly can be and that is something you should start on right away. ♥Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02491795869831026753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post-42869166801745923782010-03-24T11:55:55.269-03:002010-03-24T11:55:55.269-03:00I'm glad you got some answers and got the &quo...I'm glad you got some answers and got the "go ahead." Things will happen at just the right moment. You have a bright future girly!Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02816842738964139797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100880762410699768.post-44995027980985483972010-03-24T10:04:12.622-03:002010-03-24T10:04:12.622-03:00My heart knows that Kheri doesn't want that be...My heart knows that Kheri doesn't want that bedroom left empty. And just like her, the next baby G will show up when the time is right. When no one is expecting a little Martha or Marvin!!<br /><br />She wants you up at 3am and up to your elbows in poop looking after a baby...Because she was a smart ass pain in the butt, just like her mother!My Life in Purplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01694092743249580980noreply@blogger.com